星期一, 四月 12, 2010 @6:39 下午
Eight Tests of True Love
taken from Bruce and Carol Britten, "Questions Young People Ask"
1. The talk-freely test.
Can we talk with each other freely?
2. The habit test.
Do I want to spend my whole life with this person, even if his/her habits never change?
3. The no-touching test.
Do we really appreciate each others' personality, or do we just enjoy touching each others' body?
4. The admiration test.
Do we have reasons for admiring each other…or do we just have a lovely feeling?
5. The knowing-each-other test.
Do we know each other…past and present.
6. The love-for-Christ test.
Are we helping each other to love Christ more? Are both of us interested in obeying and serving Christ…or is just one of us really interested?
7. The giving test.
Do I want to give love and happiness to him/her? Is he/she a happy person who wants to give love and happiness to me?
8. The forgive-after-quarrel test.
After a quarrel, can both of us say "sorry"? Can we forgive? Are we unselfish enough to listen each others' idea? Can we reach an agreement?
我今天收到一個這樣的e-mail。
本來平時收到的forwarded mail我都直接丟掉。
只是這封吸引了我進去看了。
看完了，也想了很多。
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雖然說我在學業上的問題還沒有完全解決。
但是我也做不了任何東西，
只能禱告和完全的信靠上帝。
但是這幾天，
一直在想...
原來要認真的談一場蒙上帝祝福的戀愛，
真的不簡單...
明明兩個都是愛上帝的人，
卻在彼此建立感情的路上，
常發生彼此傷害的事情。
到底問題在哪裏？？？？？
不過我還是會堅持我的原則：
1。牽手了就不輕易放手。
2。凡事能忍則忍，畢竟女朋友是拿來疼的。
3。這段感情是三個人的事情，而且神來掌完權。